Shadi Online Selecting a Marriage Partner

Marriage is recommended for partners who share a common way of life. The matrimonial partners should be able to fulfill their purpose of creation as defined by Allah. They should be able to effectively carry out their responsibility as care-takers (khalifah) of earth. They should share the common goal of building a well integrated Muslim community and be able to work harmoniously towards it.

Criteria for Selecting a Marriage Partner
Normally the criteria for selecting matrimonial mates are many: wealth, beauty, rank, character, congeniality, compatibility, religion, etc. The Quran enjoins Muslims to select partners who are good and pure (tayyib)

"Women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity "(Quran 24:26)
Prophet Muhammad (S) recommended Muslims to select those partners who are best in religion (din) and character.

"A woman may married for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character). So marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper". (Bukhari and Muslim)
Prophet Muhammad (S) assured the bounty of Allah to those who wish to get married and live a pure and clean life.

"Three groups of people Allah obliged Himself to help them: Mujahid in the cause of Allah, a worker to pay his debt, and the one who wants to marry to live a chaste life". (Tirmidhi)
Freedom to Choose a Marriage Partner
Islam has given freedom of choice to those who wish to get married. The mutual choice of the would-be-spouses is given the highest consideration:

"do not prevent them from marrying their husbands when they agree between themselves in a lawful manner" (Quran 2:232)
The process of mate selection should be a function of a healthy balance between the freedom of choice of the would-be-spouses and consideration of the influence and consent of the parents/guardians.

The freedom of choice of those who wish to get married should not preclude the influence and consent of the parents/guardians nor should the parents/guardians ignore the wishes and consent of the would be spouses.

Falling in love is not a pre-condition for marriage in Islam. However, for the purpose of selecting an appropriate mat, the would-be-spouses are allowed to see and/or talk to each other.

Prophet Muhammad (S) recommended:

"When one of you seeks a woman in marriage, and then if he is able to have a look at whom he wishes to marry, let him do so". (Abu Dawood)
The would-be-spouse are allowed to see each other for matrimonial purposes under the direct supervision of their mahram relatives. This provision is expected to be conceived and executed with piety and modesty.

Prophet Muhammad (S) instructed:

"No man has the right to be in the privacy with a woman who is not lawful for him. Satan is their third party unless there is a mahram". (Ahmad)
The would-be-spouses residing in non-Muslim societies are recommended to enter into a pre-nuptial commitment to safeguard Islamic values and Muslim personal law.

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Beautiful Femal Bodies

Some women refuse to undergo bodybuilding because they think that if they stop exercising or working out, their muscles will be converted into fat. This is a common misconception. Muscles can never be transformed to fat because the two are completely different tissues. Fat results from unburned calories that get stored in the body when one’s calorie intake stays the same and physical activity is reduced or ceased. This is true for all people, even bodybuilders. When bodybuilders get older or retire, they will eventually gain weight because their metabolism slows down and their physical activity decreases.

Bodybuilding has a lot of advantages for women, especially if done appropriately and on a regular basis. However, without hard work, determination, and patience, women can never achieve the physical look they want. They will have to settle for the original shape of their bodies.


Female bodybuilding continues to gain popularity day by day. More and more women wish to achieve near-perfect symmetry to their bodies by having defined curves in all the right places. Women have also recognized the importance of a bodybuilding workout in making their muscles firm and toned. Not only do well-formed muscles achieved through workouts help develop a beautiful body, they also improve one’s health and physical strength. Female bodybuilding does not differ all that much from male bodybuilding. Men and women have the same number of muscles that react and contract in the same manner to a physical workout. The main difference between the two sexes is that men have testosterone, a muscle-building hormone, while women have estrogen, a fat-storing hormone. This does not mean, however, that women are more likely to gain weight than men are. Women who work out adequately can burn fat and develop more muscles.

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Hot Pakistani Girls

This girl does not use decorations that glamor, but it still looks captivating as a girl Pakistan.

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Beautiful Girl in Blue
by Aamir Irfan
A beautiful girl from Northern Pakistan is pictured here sitting on a wooden fence. In the background is what appears to be an olive grove.

Northern Pakistan is home to wild olives called kahu. These olive forests are reknowned for their durable timber as well as scenic beauty. Found mostly in Hazara, wild olive forests can be a great place to go for an outing or picnic.

The girls of northern Pakistan are well known in for their great looks, this lady being no exception. The colour of her sandals matches with her turquoise shalwar kameez. With a smile as beautiful as her figure, this girl proves yet again that when it comes to beauty, Pakistani girls rule the subcontinent.

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Islamabad Girls

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